Question to my guides: “When a pattern gets stuck on repeat, what is actually happening and what is needed to change it to a healthy pattern?“ There are many positives to your awareness of a pattern that keeps repeating itself: Now, you wonder where the change needs to take place to stop the repeat pattern and then, what needs to be added to create a pattern that emanates love, peace, harmony, and joy. Let’s not include the requests for answers that address what and where change occurs. Let’s pause after #3—the moment you acknowledge that a change is possible. You […]
Category Archives: Relationships
A Life That Reflects Your True Nature Requires Letting Go
What is eternal is true. What surrounds the eternal is the ebb and flow of life. We ask you to focus on the eternal – that which does not change or diminish. If there was love in your life and now you perceive it as gone, what has disappeared from your life is the form, not the eternal love that was present within the form. Keep the feeling of love and let the rest go. Most likely you experienced love and its opposites–fear, attack, and confusion–all of which can be categorized as lack of love. These experiences are not part […]
Your Unique Part in Healing the World
In this world of multiplicity there is not one single universal experience of being human. That is by design. The most efficient way to heal the mind of its sense of separation is to experience all its expressions at once and heal each one with the answer of love and unity. What would be the value of all the souls healing the exact same expression? It would not only be redundant; it would stretch out the time when the separation experience ends, and the state of consciousness is unified through one experience of love. Be content in doing your part. […]
How to Respond to Attacking Energies
When someone loves you and purposely tries to hurt you, there is a core wound rising to the surface. It is difficult for you to reconcile love with attack. We ask you to stop trying to equate these two energies as if they could possibly co-exist in a harmonious blend. Your core wound is the experience of attack where there was once love. Where there is love, there is no attack. Where there is attack, there is fear. And, fear is an energy that hides love. Love is a continuous energy that exists always and everywhere. Overlaying this energy can […]
Have Faith in Better Moments to Come
Spend a moment considering how life continues to flow regardless of events and situations, difficulties, or challenges. Each morning the sun rises, time ticks away, and moments lead to more moments. The content of these moments varies. Regardless of how you experience the moment, there is another moment on its heels. You are never stuck in time, although it may seem that way to you when moment after moment you have the exact same experience. If you are sad or fearful in one moment and the next moment you continue to feel the same emotions, you may conclude that time […]
Guidance for Navigating Transitions
You are in transition between the old and the new. The old doesn’t seem right for you and the new hasn’t arrived yet. Transitions are complicated. Your heart still carries some burdens from the past. These hurts and painful events are not weighing you down or preventing you from moving forward. They are present as part of the transition to the new. Your fond memories and love for others are also present in this transition period. As you realize more and more that the new is coming–and we assure you that it is–nostalgia for what is no longer in your […]
When You Are Up Against Controlling Energies
A dominant, authoritative energy seeks to undermine the feminine mystique–the mystical, creative element that gives birth to new ideas and transforms a dualistic society of leaders and followers to a collective flow of nurturing love and healing. This controlling energy questions the feminine ways which is led by intuition and the heart, and tries to exert command over the way the world solves its problems. When you are up against an external or internal dominant energy that seeks to control the outcome through conventional means, the feminine creative energy stops abruptly. A creative flow is nurtured with tenderness and coaxing […]
The Goal of Any Endeavor on Earth
We would like you to remember the goal of any endeavor on earth. To remind you of the purpose is to remind you of who you are. The means to reach the goal also reminds you of who you are because each step can only be executed by one who is in touch with some aspect of their Divine nature. When one has a goal of healing, peace, happiness, fulfillment, connection and so on AND they take steps toward the goal – that is the Self remembering its essence and ability to be itself. It doesn’t matter what means are […]
Emotions in Relationships
“Feel all of your emotions,” is a directive we have given to you before in previous messages. You wonder, however, what responsibility you have to change other’s emotions from negative to positive. We wish to address this question more specifically now. Emotions are essentially your own. Feelings arise from within yourselves. Your question about responsibility is likened to the analogy of a pot of water on a stove that is bubbling because of the flame underneath. Are you responsible for causing the water to heat up? Are you responsible for cooling off the water? Your responsibility lies in witnessing what […]
Why Is It Important to Examine Our Internal World?
You are embodying the attributes of a spiritual being. The old patterns, beliefs, and emotions are what we call the “human” side of beingness. How you act in the world, what you believe about yourself and others, and how you feel can either be of a spiritual nature or from the made-up role of being human. When you drop old ways of being it is because you are ready to express your spiritual attributes. This process of releasing beliefs, healing emotional wounds, changing destructive and unhealthy behavior patterns is for the purpose of allowing your spiritual attributes to shine through […]